The big decisions
- Set a rough budget and decide who pays for what
- Pick a date window (not a fixed date yet)
- Make a guest list – 100, 150, 250
- Choose the wedding format
- Hire a planner if you want one
Twelve months sounds like plenty of time until you start. Here's the order things actually need to happen in, and the deadlines that matter.
Budget, guest list, format, planner-or-not. The choices that shape everything else.
Booking phaseVenue, photographer, florist, officiant. What each one costs and what to ask.
Final stretchMarriage license, officiant law, vendor tipping, the day-of timeline.
240 real wedding budgets, broken into eight line items. Where surprises hide.
Planning · ToolA 14-month checklist in one page. Print it, mark it up, stick it on the fridge.
Budget · ToolEditable Google Sheet with formulas — pre-filled with realistic line items.
Planning · GuideWhen the photographer arrives, when dinner gets served, when the band stops.
Etiquette · GuideWho pays for what, who sits where, who gets a plus-one. Honest answers, no judgment.
Planning · DecisionDay-of coordinator vs full-service planner — what they cost, what each one does.
96 guides covering venue selection, geographic guides, and the logistics behind each one.
Topic → Photography11 guides on choosing a photographer, engagement shoots, what each style really costs.
Topic → FoodCatering formats, menu planning, cake, and the bar — how each gets priced.
Topic → DecorSeasonal palettes, sourcing, centerpieces — what's worth it and what isn't.
Topic → MusicDJ vs band, ceremony music, officiants, and writing your vows.
Topic → InvitationsSave-the-dates, invitations, RSVPs, thank-you cards — the whole paper trail.
18 guides on silhouettes, fittings, alterations, and the basque waist mega-cluster.
Topic → Rings42 guides on metals, settings, engagement rings, and wedding bands.
Topic → For the GroomBlack tie, morning suit, modern tux — and how to dress the groomsmen well.
State-by-state rules, ordination paths, how to become one yourself. The Ohio chapter covers ORC 3101.08.
Legal · GuideWaiting periods, ID requirements, witnesses, fees. Franklin County specifics for Columbus couples.
Tools · ReferenceWhat's expected, what's optional, what each vendor gets. With cash envelopes for the day.
Local · ColumbusWhich parks allow ceremonies, what they cost, lead times for permits and rain plans.
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